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Should you tell your date that you are immortal on your first encounter?
If not, when?
If not, when?
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Re: First Date Conduct
Thu, November 10, 2005 - 9:25 AMI usually like to tell people that I am immortal right in the beginning and get that conversation out of the way, but of course, depending on who you are dealing with, I'd suppose you can determine when and if they are able to handle that information.
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Re: First Date Conduct
Sat, January 21, 2006 - 3:37 PMNormally I would never be one to criticize 'mixed' relationships, but when it comes to mortals and immortals... I just don't think it works.
Oh, yeah, they might seem OK with it in the beginning, but just wait till they start to age and notice you don't look any different--suddenly the jealousy starts to creep in. They won't admit that's what it's about... but I can tell.
Plus they're all soooo... young. Almost none of them are over a century, and those that are don't seem to be very sexy, and oftentimes aren't even continent. What can we even talk about with someone who's life experience spans a mere few decades? What kind of partnership can we have with someone who thinks the 1960's are 'ancient history' and before that there were dinosaurs?
But if some of us simply MUST date mortals then I'd say you should tell them before any sort of sex happens. Some mortals are just freaky weird about the whole idea of having sex with a non-mortal. It doesn't matter that they can't tell by looking... the whole idea just creeps them out.
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Sun, March 19, 2006 - 2:59 PMHave you ever seen the movie Tuck Everlasting Myst? Its about an entire Family that becomes Immortal and never ages because they drank from a "Magic"spring back in the late 1820s.The oldest one got married and had children.Than when his children were about 4 and 6 years old, he told his wife about the spring and the Tuck fammily was accused of Witchcraft and all Hell broke loose! Than his 2 children got sick and died and his wife died in a Mental Institution a few years after she left him.Then thers the youngest son Jessey, who met and fell in Love with a welthy teenage girl at the age of 104(the early 20th century) and in the end,she did not drink from the "Magic"spring and died at the age of 100. It was a very Romantically frustrating movie. -
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Re: First Date Conduct
Wed, April 5, 2006 - 8:57 AMNever saw it. Why would she not drink from the magic spring!?! -
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Mon, April 17, 2006 - 5:31 PMShe didnt drink from the magic because Jessey Tucks father talked her out of it using some type of "wheel Of Life" type of thing.The way I see it, he was just trying to manipulate her by adding total nonsense to a typical Zen chat.He was all like "Us Tucks are not a part of that wheel anymore".And Were not living,were just existing like a rock".Well just because they never age and apparantly can not die eather dosent mean that they remain stagnant in any other way! They can still take in new infirmation every day and they can change with the "changing times".
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